Mothers Diary

 Mothers Diary

next year I'll do my mother, was trying to write down my feelings, I still have not put into practice, can last, the little guy is not honest in my stomach ------- I felt a fetal movement, from time to time little guy to turn over and stretch a leg to remind me of his existence. I think, really what the writing, or else the little guy will blame me.
My husband and I married a few years, I still have not intend to have children, not so much because of work pressure, it does not change our playful, always felt that ready yet, the thought of parents, we should have some loss. Gradually, her friends are playing on the mind large income, serious if the child's problems to be put on the agenda. My husband and I figured who, anyway, the age is not small, together with their parents or implied, or at the reminders, or good intentions, or righteous, well, we just have it - sooner or later anyway.
this way, my husband and I make a full mental preparation. be who knows, we are ready, and little guy has deep breath, and we have not been able to achieve our planned set policy. had a good convention and a few friends together to a little monkey, but monkey from Hericium heading for the big body, and then heading for the big monkey butt, I am here but he is no movement. plan is not achieved, my husband and I played it again whispered: We will not go wrong, right?
doubt, hesitation, apprehension, I and my husband off the sheep, and ushered in the monkey , friend's child like a revolving door, saw one, saw another one, my husband and I were just out of the inexplicable tension and anxiety.
August this year, did not expect, my husband and I have been looking forward to the results of the flowers finally the. pregnancy reaction can be followed again I fell to the bottom peak of excitement. From the beginning of pregnancy more than 40 days, every day was a small guy out of the days feel like years, in the morning to see milk, vomiting, tasteless No, but carrot and stick her husband - must drink, get on the nutrition! bite the bullet and eat breakfast in the front, to report back to the bathroom several times, nausea and vomiting. to the unit, I am also a frequent visitor to the bathroom, oh, ah ah, and stirred Teng me want to cry. (in this child you are ready to advise the MM, we must be prepared.) not only spit, and even eating habits also became pale and I originally met only eat rice, rice to pantothenic acid, met with fried noodles, steamed bread to like; the original supermarket cookies are my favorite colors, do not eat to live, I can rely on cookies, crackers for nausea now met, let alone see, is to think, does not work; I originally did not eat meat, no meat, refusing to become a beast ... ... but also particularly sensitive to the taste, the smell of cooking pot explosion can take my life, the supermarket bread Hong purchase will allow me to spit a day turned upside down, seafood, cooked food taste makes my face twist ... ... Perhaps you think I said, exaggerating, but the fact is the case. It is simply time for nearly a month of my hell! - baby, you can blame my mother alarmist, but you really frustrating me unbearable!
dark past, the dawn comes. finally get through the first three months of pregnancy reaction is over, I feel super cool! neither the discomfort some time ago, but also did not originally have to go through hell every month, in short, very comfortable.
this first wrote this it, then I will continue to gossip!:)
2004 年 12 月 8 日 9 October, just After three months I went to the women and children made the first examination, built a manual. because time is short, plus I had thin, so I do not see the situation, to see so many hallways General belly mother, I Fortunately, and some envy, glad that they did not look into the awkward, you can also Shenqingruyan can be also some envy, because watching those proud moms a heart full of pride the way, I was in a hurry , else has also hope that their shy up earlier.
check items is very simple, ask the individual situation, and then look up blood, urine, blood pressure, ECG, tell you about the benefits of breastfeeding. from the women and children came out, I was excited, I do not know about for yourself started the process of gestation baby was happy, because I hope passers-by, strangers can see that I was pregnant, was eager, in short, the kind of face to face talk with the doctor baby, with the glance, would laugh, and then ask of mutual concern, or, or another humility, in the baby may else has time to become women, generous, tolerant, understanding!
pain after pregnancy reaction , is a pleasant long fleshy eat and drink for some time. because there is no original nausea, feeling of nausea, so eating is a pleasure. And, subconsciously, it will remind ourselves of that nutritious, that is junk food, pro-million asked to pay attention to this, be careful that, remember what, what vigilance, it seems this period, Chihaohehao take care of our cause is good, the other of the question. no pregnancy, and mothers who already have a baby together, think there is no common language, after pregnancy, say nothing of sorrow did not talk about, teach them, or earnest, or a serious reminder, or friendly advice, that warming may have never seen fresh.
home care for elders is a plus, changing the pattern of transfers in the dish. because my husband and I always return to her in-laws house for dinner, we do not fire, it was felt more on the table plates, patterns often refurbished, fish ah, shrimp, ah, every few days to seek sub-surface , fish to eat, I saw a headache. no way, in order else has a baby inside, on the whole this is when I import company, and accept all!
fruit, walnuts, milk, eggs, pork, fish soup, protein powder, anything can think of nutritious DD, regardless of me if I love to eat, no matter how taste, in short, come on! every weekend back home before my mom was always concerned father asked: eat What? - eat all of my life has become a!
This is my true portrayal of four months of pregnancy. However, I can tell you quite sure MM, diet is really wonderful, strengthening nutrition The result is my skin is especially good, unique hair shiny, and this is my windfall.
four months, the baby thrive in my else has, but the touch else has known for, in addition to curiosity, fresh in addition, there is no other feeling, because the baby did not give me any signals, so that very quickly want to come out else has more urgent the feeling!
good, the first to write these, I want to up activities activities, and let the baby suck oxygen!

pregnant today and we talk about interesting things in it!
husband especially like boys, sexual orientation especially sharp, since I was pregnant pregnant, her husband mention of children, closed mouth is drinking beer, watching the middle of the night the Premier League, Serie A, as long as you mention, obediently Qiaoqiao, good, strong kid than a skin more.
said prospective children to see the day her son to colleagues in the unit, then put the little guy around a few colleagues received to me and he asked pointing to my stomach: Chang Chang, you see where Aunt else has a younger brother or sister? little guy tweaking a long time, I am sorry to say: baby sister. home, I told the husband, and to He analyzed: Look, people say that the quasi-children, is definitely a girl, and often more than the more you want, forget it, let's definitely a girl. ooh, did not expect her husband and said bitterly: Your child is a boy that my colleagues or a girl? I said boy, he went on to say: Tell him, be careful, then say so, I took his penis Jiuxia Lai. listening to her husband, then I'll be happy stomach ache. back I joke when his mother told Cheong Chang, my colleague, the next day, my colleagues put Chang Chang relay the message to me - my mother, I'm not going your office. Look, the children her husband's joke scared.
this day, heard the good news, the successful production of a colleague, gave birth to 7 pounds more than the big fat baby, so many older colleagues on the identification and analysis of a boy or a woman under - pregnant women, navel watching, suddenly out of the boy, flat or concave navel girl. home, I turned this information to her husband, because I was only 4 months of pregnancy, the navel must be concave, so I pour cold water on this to her husband: Look, a girl, not fantasy. I did not expect, her husband looked for a while, said to me: fast, the skin Chuai son brought our family, I'll give you suck out! I'm angry, laughed, almost did not have gas to go back.
I take the bus to work are so often my colleagues asked me: someone to give you the car seat? Because I have not see it, plus winter clothes to wear more, so no one take me for a pregnant woman, let alone a seat. almost 5 months, one day I work, just boarded a bus, the driver put the car horn brother ringing the: Members of passengers ... ... I heard a happy heart: Oh, it seems I ran into a super-observant drivers saw it, and hey, today seat of the. So quite unconscious of the very belly again. I did not expect, my stomach has not been quite up and how much, the next I heard was: to make you have a good driving environment ... ... I am dizzy #
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four months later, my stomach began to clear. myself do not feel anything, can my colleagues say, look at my gait related to the original not the same, this I do not know, I just feel too much trouble tie their shoes, lace up your shoes, looked up, the choke's face flushed.
11 months, I work to change, and get my emotions poor, depressed every day, no mood to work, and my heart always feels blocking blocking. perhaps because of the emotional impact, and my appetite is not good, so more than 20 days straight, my stomach is no change, her husband, she wondered : You're stomach, but not long-hand, see how small? I know that emotions have a great impact on children, but related to their future, and I simply could not take it to heart, and sometimes her husband did not come back at night, their alone at home, more difficult to beguile the hearts of the unhappy, the thought of work to do, often fail to live up tears. although he also try to tell myself: It is an unusual time, can not cry, the fetus is not good, who cares, first child support good to say, you can go truth reason, sorry could not help himself. Sometimes it is very wronged, I will side tears, else has in one side and the baby talk: Baby, you can not blame my mother, my mother knew this to You bad, but my mother is sad heart, you can not blame me ah! be sad situation often becomes clearer, the last cry of a mess. I do not know how this will impact how much the baby, but every time think of it , and my heart always feel sorry for the child.
11 at the end, I finally work arrangements also will be feeling much better, although the new environment, but the working atmosphere is excellent, and my mood stabilized. (in this child ready to advise MM, pregnant, do adjust their emotions, do not like me, or children must be affected.)
11 月 26, I went to the women and children to do a second check , the amount of weight (I have longer than 10 kilograms before pregnancy had), blood pressure, listening to fetal heart rate (heart special little guy, dynamic, bouncing, and if the child's heart rate faster), this is mainly made a prenatal screening, early detection of whether the child is mainly malformations, yes, but also made a B-.
out to do B, a curtain opened, several prominent type to leap into the eyes : forbidden sex non-medical examination. Well, it seems doctors are not easily tell you that you are pregnant is male or female myself, this is people's discipline. Well, actually think it does not matter, what boys and girls, anyway now one of the men and women do the same thing.
first note to the next time, then chatter with you!

to MM who often talk about buying access to the Internet going round the small radiation Experience it! because you often in front of the computer Hao Zhao, along with TV, microwave oven, induction cooker, alas, no way, modern life has brought us too much pollution, so be careful, pay more attention to Oh!
radiation YY (hereinafter referred to as anti-YY) there are basically two types of wear on the inside, the apron-like, can be attached to wearing, there is a relatively large size, the same as the aprons. choose what to see Members of the needs and aesthetic.
is pretty important, more important is whether its radiation protection function works, because that is the best use. YY measure is to look at it against the metal wire content, content , the better. when I went to buy, there are two, one is content to 14%, a 20% difference on the price hundreds of dollars, I chose the one that is 20. In order to compare about the difference between the two, I and my husband on the spot to experiment with it. My husband put in the anti-YY in the mobile phone package, then I call that phone, the results of 20 the kind of wave, indicating that your phone can not be connected, and 14 of the kind, according to then correct. see you MM, buy time to have to try Oh! seller also yield a light, connected to the power, then anti-YY around the lights around the specific anything, I did not see you, for fear of radiation, her husband did not let me come near that light, so I will not give you describe.
In addition, at home, we also get burned Xiao Butou the burning, the metal wire does look see.
do not know management does not work, anyway, take it, heart to having peace of mind points, the original did not take the time and sometimes at night watching TV, and I took a big, thick The cushion block in front of his stomach, knowing that does not work, you can always feel a bit stronger now than not do not!
  11 months of time, that is when I am five months pregnant, and I felt fetal movement, the baby in my belly is not honest. very lively little guy, in my else has in like stretching, but also as a Sahuan, looking through the hot, wonderful feeling great! fetal movement feel a lot of people are different , a colleague said, like to take bubble, and a colleague said, small guy like mice, in the stomach, prowling, I feel it is like to open the pot, Dazhao Gun's turned up, so that I feel like Baotu in the three strands of water, cushions toot, of course, not continuous, there is a very experienced colleague told me that fish is called turning, not to mention, think about it, really pretty image The.
with the introduction of fetal movement, I am more willing to talk with others of my baby, my husband said I want to talk now, taking it every individual, just like they said the child, hey, no way, I seem to feel the baby every movement, as if in and say hello: Hi, Mom, I woke up; Hey, Mom, I'm hungry; Hey, Mom, you oppress me ... ... and never experience a sense of joy for ever I think live is so interesting!
with frequent fetal movement, and my else has also advancing rapidly, set in the sweater in the shirt, the bottom two buttons are not on line already, one way or another zip down jacket after , a kind of feeling of being tied up, it appears that little guy in the stomach, legs open stroll, so I have to meet the little one else has, give him a venue big enough Oh, opening up.
I have a little guy exchange, I would prefer to speak to him, give him to sing with the music by holding the stomach to take him along with the rhythm of swing dancing, I had specifically bought several books of the fairy tale, he read a passage every day. I remember one Sunday morning, I took out Andersen's Fairy Tales, read to him, Magically, the little guy it would suddenly become quiet, seems to have been touched, really is a very wonderful ah!!
seven or eight o'clock at night, when is the baby most active the time, he rolled in my else has in a turn of a rolling stop, very lively. Dear MM, when you plan to BABY, you should definitely feel good feeling fetal movement, the kind of joy, Well, really wonderful feeling great, you will remember with affection one kind of life gave birth to the great and proud feeling, you MM, that was all that man can never expect to enjoy in this life Oh!!
December 22, 2004 December 10 morning, I had just finished brushing their teeth face, facing the mirror smug, when suddenly I felt my stomach move was when I did not react, but also silly to think how going on, suddenly all of a sudden come to understand themselves: Oh, baby Yeah! he greeted me too! I do not know this little guy is pounding his hand, I still play with his little feet, I, ho, this small indeed a very diligent guy, wake up so early - only 6 points at it! I excitedly woke the husband: Hey, baby just kicked me! lost her husband suddenly the lake to the spirit: how to play the ? how to play it? husband once flew at my stomach, trying to see, hear, may my stomach are not transparent, can see? I pushed him: OK, see you then. really Unexpectedly, little guy at this time has given us such a big surprise. facing the mist out of me, and cheerful, his mind always finish what I wanted to punch or kick, go to work, saw my colleagues, I Xiang-lin Sao chattering like several times: This morning, the children do not Ding Meng gave me all of a sudden ... ...
12  11, is my birthday. and her husband a good long talk to the students that to be a B Ultra, Ultra is male or female in advance, in order to celebrate my birthday. So, on the 11th morning, my husband and I went straight to the students to work in hospitals, taking a back door, look at the small guy's sex. because they are acquaintances, her husband also an exception into the B-room, early and child interview. I lay in bed, disturbed and so are the students who take the instrument in my stomach and slide to slide, from left to right, and from the top around to the bottom, little guy We like to know what to do, always running around, and also the tight calf. students carefully to find the look: Well, look not quite clear, and the pretty little guys legs tight - well, if a girl - my quiet bed, his heart was barely disguised pleasure: good, a girl, I like.
Although her husband said the boy usually old, and can be at this time he seems more concerned about how the child-like, staring staring at the screen, and asked: This is not the child's head, which is the child's legs it. classmate and her colleagues told him patiently, and he looked at all apparent seriousness, do not know what thought he really understand like .
out, I jokingly said to her husband, hoping wasted it, down it! husband indifference and saying, Ah, what the girl is also quite good ah - but, from now on, I have to consider how Educating girls - and I'm not thinking about the original ah!
identified gender, the next step we consider the child's name on myself, you, any tips?
2004  12  25  14 December evening I lay on the sofa reading a book and suddenly feel my stomach is more like a heart, Beng Bengtiao. because of the baby kicking my last experience, so I know it must have the baby in with fists and I greet it. I put the book down, quietly enjoying the unique way this little guy, silly smile.
asked her husband to the side access to the Internet what I giggle, I pointed to his stomach and said to him, the small Huan guys are trouble too! husband can not wait to throw his online game, and ran to me and put his hand gently on my stomach, sudden, chug, a short while, the small guys out again. feeling both excited and straight into my new husband giggle: hey, move, move!
husband as he is the responsiveness of the training as one would put his hand on the left of my stomach, one would put on the right, like a small guy with boxing kicked and hit, but he could not accompany her husband so much patience to play, a short while to the transfer of strategic tired of her husband, simply ignore his stubble, self-serving in a local conflict, chug of the play.
My husband and I were little guys Huan real enthusiasm also get the excited, sleepy just suddenly disappeared, he kept teasing him to play. This night is like the first time our family gatherings, baby with his characteristic declare their own way of existence, my husband and I also think that our hearts and our little family is all because of this little life and filled full of Viiv.
next morning at 6 o'clock, I woke up. As I ready to get up when the baby belly began to stretch arms and my legs went so far as the, ah, this little guy really is diligent, so up early to do morning exercises. I touched his stomach and say hello: Hi, baby, you it kinda mental, it was still dark, so early wake up?
scarred steaming for a while, the baby was quiet. It seems, then I get up, have another job , that is, and my little baby say hello, and then other bones after his activities, then take him to get up!
2004   12   26  17 December night, my dinner with a friend Press, He brought me two books are about educating the children, with children playing games with the contents of the outer version of the book.
a long time because we have not seen, so we chatted for a meeting of the full swing, The only difference is that the past is always around the topic of our children, because his children have been in elementary school, so he is more to the identity of someone who has the experience to teach me, but never before on the topic of interest to my children , had to listen to with relish.
he told me his wife have children, he did not know how could it momentum, in units busy all day, and came home on their aprons to be busy. He said when he was a specially prepared vats, which are his day to buy fresh carp, come home, to busy killing the fish, scraping scales, soups, and later bought the trotters, stew, of which one busy . He said that life was both substantial and interesting every day feel the unique life goals - to serve his wife well. Of course, such a hard result, the month of his wife, after done, and he is fat in a circle , upstairs like asthma, no way, the wife of the total residual soup leftovers can not waste it, had to sweep the battlefield of their own.
I asked him, the child so big, I have not done something you might regret later that we should In this way, but because of lack of experience or did not have the patience and regret the things yourself? he thought, shook his head and said, if not, to say you regret that children can not be too strict, and now think In fact, he was young, and sometimes do not, such as dinner dirty clothes, what could not hold things so small, not too demanding him, I sometimes would scold him: how, this done something bad? actually think, maybe he was really doing well, he can not, is not up to his ability, in adults it is easy of the simple eyes of children, may require him very hard to do, so do not be too demanding for him and let him slowly.
I listened attentively, and I always wanted to learn from others point of parenting experience, so their own detours, but also make your own healthy growth of babies. He said, now look back and think, really have no regrets to children, the children brought him and his wife too much happiness and ideals, life experience should try the experience, otherwise, only really is a great pity.
course, we also talk of work, friends, or children can be up to the topic, I like to tell him how I feel, like listening to him teach his son the party, and before leaving, he smiled, told me that you really have a mother like it.
the way home, I have been thinking, mom? should be what kind? that I gradually came to walk like a duck's gait, or am I shy out of the stomach? is I do not twitter dancing becomes calm, and still talk to a child's excitement and focus? I do not know, maybe they have it, in fact, the process of pregnancy in October, gave birth to a baby, not just the process of The biggest change is the changing role of a woman, think, from a naive girl to a wife, mother, this is the greatest change a girl. from the enjoyment of parental care to get used to her husband's love, then they have to wholeheartedly devote themselves to the love of all life on a small, whether physical or mind, does not want to change I think is immune.
mother like, when I heard these three words, I could not help smiling, is a sincere smile, an irrepressible joy, because I always think it contains too many words of affection and warmth, peace, everything makes you feel something warm and comfortable ... ...
2004  12   31  29 December night I was at home watching Reflections on the information age, to to meditate. his film does not seek composition and visual impact, he was always wondering how to tell the story well, he was found with your eyes all the phenomena of life, thinking with the mind, then do the film carrier, presented to you. never show off his stunt, nor sensational, people feel so approachable, people and events in the movie seems to be on our side, read a knowing smile.
see, I digress, or return it! Without Thieves thief,
This is a New Year film, this should not Jiaoren tears can be seen at the end, I actually cried tears, because Andy's death, or because do not know, I just thought, this child was too poor, one came to this world to face this tragedy. I cry more than her husband wondered that, he looked again at the end of it twice, still did not understand my cry , Wang Bo died, in exchange for the freedom of Wang Li, and her desire for children to be repented of. to see the end, I actually did not because the child from the father and Ge You hate, I talk on and on again and again: I hate Lebanese Uncle, I hate Ge You the ... ... In fact, I know, this is just a movie, I did not expect, even as a child I did not show up so deep into the drama!
fact, I not only sad to see the movie the process I also unfounded, see the classic lines, and Feng Xiaogang's humor, but also remember the little classic lines such as these, however, made me in mind of the parents for children, for the afterlife of cause and effect, change and sacrifice for the children of the earnest heart, I am more worried about Wang Li, point, the baby called me up, but not about what a gentle knock, or hit, but came a series of combination punches or serial leg, and I can not help but smile: the child, the mother saw yesterday, but , have not seen general belly, and I know my little baby is thriving, and from his level of activity in my belly and I am increasingly familiar way of his fist and foot law, I know my baby is very naughty, very lively, full inheritance My husband and I love the dynamic and flexible learning.
smooth birth to the baby, and now my daily morning, afternoon deliberately less to do two stops the car, took ten minutes, after dinner, I will go out again walk half an hour. no way, sitting all day long during the day, activities too, had their own time and opportunity to find more places, both for their own students when carefully, but also to the baby's health.
may eat cause too few eggs, or because children grow fast, last night when I had cramps and sometimes a feeling of my legs, calves, feet hurt badly I want to have friends over to swim must have experienced cramping know a feeling upset. No way, I had to eat eggs, hard by the scalp, in order to help them swallow, I had to change those laws to eat, cooked, fried food, steamed cake, make waffles, etc. People say, eat eggs not only calcium, the child's skin . off his scientific scientific, credible credible, eat a talk about it - anyway, when you were pregnant, you will not eat for the transfer to pull.
I am not a man who has perseverance, but the baby began to read fairy tales since the beginning of this work I'd stick with it, and every night, I will read to him a while, read him a short articles, a long time to split. I do not know whether baby listen hear see know, whether it is useful to him, but I think, the fairy tale is really very wonderful thing, every time, I have been attracted to the story, whether I know I've never seen or heard. see baby exchanged in advance and let him know my voice as soon as possible. Sometimes, I'll sing the songs I will listen to him and gently in the stomach on the beat, to bed, I will put my will The two sing a lullaby he did, though sometimes lyrics wrong, though I sometimes makes up creating chaos, who cares, as long as I like, as long as I like the little baby.
seems just beginning to write, there is a lot of words say, can be the first stop here today, I want to take my baby for a walk to go! a time, I will continue!
2005  1 31
to see the day, I have to go After 30 weeks, another 10 weeks, and I respect and met my baby.
see every day is a big belly, a lot of people saw me exclaimed: how recent your stomach so long fast, how about the other day yet, so how big these days? on the bus, the driver pressed the big brother or big sister will be speakers, remind passengers: the need to take care of you all who came. who really strange, the original people can not see the car I try so hard, so someone can give you a seat once, I actually embarrassed for the first time a little girl when my seat I also broke a big red face, I do not know why.  baby head is not only known, strength is also growing, now hit me was kicking my neck see the big night I was sitting on the couch reading, activities of this little guy up, my stomach is left and right pendulum This little guy, I fed you eat, and eat, and you turn around and kick me hit me, ungrateful ...